女人流泪不知道会不会心痛？

女人为什么会哭

A little boy asked his mother "Why are you crying?"
一个男孩问他的妈妈:" 你为甚麼要哭呢?"

"Because Im a woman," she told him.
妈妈说:"因为我是女人啊."

"I dont understand," he said.
男孩说:"我不懂.

His mum just hugged him and said, "And you never will"
他妈妈抱起他说:"你永远不会懂得."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"
后来小男孩就问他爸爸:"妈妈为甚麼毫无理由的哭呢?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.
"所有女人都这样."他爸爸回答.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
小男孩长成了一个男人,但仍就不懂女人为甚麼哭泣.

Finally he put in a call to God; and when God got on the phone,he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"
最后,他打电话给上帝;当上帝拿起电话时,他问道:"上帝,女人为甚麼那麼容易哭泣呢?"

God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort"
上帝回答说:"当我创造女人时,让她很特别.我使她的肩膀能挑起整个世界的重担;并且,又柔情似水.

"I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children"
我让她的内心很坚强,能够承受分娩的痛苦和忍受自己孩子多次的拒绝."

"I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining "
我赋予她耐心使她在别人放弃的时候继续坚持,并且无怨无悔的照顾自己的家人渡过疾病和疲劳.

"I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly"
我赋予她在任何情况下都会爱孩子的感情,即使她的孩子伤害了她.

"I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart"
我赋予她包容她丈夫过错的坚强和用他的勒骨塑成她来保护他的心.

"I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly"
我赋予她智慧让她知道一个好丈夫是绝不会伤害他的妻子的,但有时我也会考验她支持自己丈夫的决心和坚强.

"And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."
最后,我让她可以流泪.只要她愿意.这是她所独有的.

"You see: The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair."
你看,女人的漂亮不是因为她穿的衣服,她保持的体型或者她梳头的方式.

"The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart * the place where love resides."
女人的漂亮必须从她的眼睛中去看,因为那是她心灵的窗户和爱居住的地方

对于女人的眼泪，如果基于心理学上来分析，女人的流泪是跟“快感”连结在一起的。在流泪时会感到一种“净化作用”。如果以世俗的说法来表现的话，那正是一般人所谓的“心胸感到开朗”。她们浸在泪水的深渊，很快乐的在那儿漂流。 　　
　　“眼泪是女人的法宝！”是一句至理名言。有一些昆虫碰到危险时，就会把自己收缩成圆状，装成死掉的样子。这就叫做“利用拟态的逃避”，而这种现象，与女人的眼泪有一脉相连的共通点。大多数的男人碰到女人哭泣时，立刻就会显得手足无措，这也是男人最大的缺点。 　　
　　但是，女人不但利用眼泪作为逃避的工具，又想凭拟态获得利益。电影中常有这样的场景：女主人公因为斗不过男朋友而哭泣，本不想理她的男友，回过头来看她一眼，就又把“梨花一枝春带雨”似的女友面孔拉近，热情地拥吻。 　
　 女人就是这样，凭着眼泪获得“快感”、“逃避”、“利益”这三样东西。所以男人有时会愤然的说：“女人是狡猾的动物！”究其根渊，女人为什么会那样呢？说来说去，还不是男人太溺爱女人眼泪的缘故。他们还创造“梨花一枝春带雨”的句子，藉以形容女人流泪时的风情。他们说悄悄地拿手帕儿揩眼角的女人才显得百分之百的“楚楚动人”。

我想，你说的流泪一定是指的为了爱情而伤心的时候吧，
为了心爱的人流泪是会很痛的，至少我很痛，和你有一点象的就是：我心脏的左下角也会痛。不过，我的痛是从左手的无名指和小拇指一直传到心脏左下角的。心痛的同时那两根手指也很痛。痛还不准确，应该说是一种一点痛一点麻痹得不能动的感觉。

大多数男性是怕女性哭的。
但哭的种类不一样。如果她几乎不哭，突然哭了。那么你伤害了她。哭完了，心还会痛。
如果她经常哭，那么哭之前她是心痛的，哭完了就好了。因为哭是一种减缓压力的方式。

【╰ぷ淡淡的醉ヾ回复】

有人说,世界本来拥有十分色彩,缺少了女人便少了七分美丽.那么是否可以说女人本来有十分美丽,缺少了眼泪,便缺少了三分韵致呢?广而言之,眼泪并不仅仅代表伤感,它可以蕴藏激动,可以饱含幸福,甚至还张扬孤独和愤怒…
多数女人喜欢流泪,这本是一种天性,如同她们酷爱谈时装与逛商场一样无可厚非.有些内秀的女人喜欢把这种本该挂在脸上的眼泪转移到心里或者干脆把它们隐藏在文章里.如若不信,诸君不妨翻翻一些女性的文章,在里面你完全可以嗅到女性的温柔细腻,甚至可以感受到那些流淌在内心深处的眼泪—欢乐和悲伤在肆意宣泄,透过如泣如诉的文字,你非但不会轻视她们的泪水,反而会对此陡生一种说不清的情愫.
不要一味的指责女人的眼泪,因为它并不单纯的代表软弱,有时它可以生华为一种高尚的情感.林妹妹的眼泪早已远去了,但在生活中,女人们的眼泪仍在继续,虽说动不动“泪光点点”令人生厌,但适当的流点“眼泪”却是对自身生活的装点,起码展现女人们或喜或悲的心情.从这种意义出发,能否可以说: 应该相信女人的眼泪呢?